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Main KEY happy household is the presence of mutual love and affection between husband and wife. The husband will respect and give all your love and affection to his wife, if women were to give love and appreciation to her husband. And vice versa.

For the wife to not lose a sense of love and respect her husband, then a wife must know and stay away from the properties of a woman who hated her husband. Among these properties the most prominent, as written in his book Az Shabah Sa’id Al-Zaujah Mubdi’ah wa-Asrar al-Jamal, among others:

1. Wife is busy with himself.

Such wives usually stay away from all the affairs of husbands, and more concerned with their own affairs as well as his favorite. Basically, the wife like this feel good every time he could be alone, and can keep all that he heard, he saw, and her touch for yourself. Perhaps this is due to mental illness who require further treatment.

… This wife is a wife who ignores her husband’s existence. Because he always did not ask her husband advice, or not involve them in family affairs …

2. Wife who likes to dominate.

Wife like this is the wife who ignores her husband’s existence. Because he always did not ask her husband advice, or not involve them in family affairs. He continued to own all the family affairs and home affairs with her husband regardless of opinion.

Here, a husband will feel that their identity has been lost, because he could do for the good of the house or just give up their children alone, or ignore their existence. Men of this kind, if not separate himself from his wife like that, it could be he will try to find, or get what he wants as long as this from another woman.

3. Wives who love to lie.

One of the things that must be held within the marriage relationship is the element of honesty in all things. This remember, honesty is one of the pillars of peace and happiness. Somewhere out there there are many women who like to lie. They made a lie as a hobby or as a pretext for fear of something. But whatever the reason, lies and deception are the two most hated men. Although sometimes a man receives from his wife’s actions lie for one reason or another, but the acceptance of a husband against vices that are usually accompanied by disparaging views.

4. Wife of cruel / vicious.

This kind of wife is wives who so easily give punishment to her husband, when her husband do a certain thing. Wife like this constantly disturbing her husband, because the character hostility. In addition, the wife like this would be used to issue a scathing words, loud, and rude to neighbors, friends, and family members. Wife of a cruel, of course, raises many problems for her husband, even for children as well. So ingrained in her children the attitude of the soul is not happy and will stay away from her mother.

… Wife fierce, it’s easy to give punishment to her husband, when her husband do a certain thing. Wives are always troubling her husband …

5. Wife is difficult.

This kind lady used to live in an atmosphere full of life with bad manners, domestic turmoil, always created the seeds of discord. For every word that came out of her mouth that contains a command to the important things that must be his wife, it turns out she even brushed off all the words of her husband and refused responsibility for it. So often he creates difficulties and sparked clashes between him and her husband. In such circumstances, the husband prefers to stay away from home, or maybe he’ll stay at home and went along with his bad character.

6. The passive wife.

This kind of wife will leave and hand over all affairs to her husband, so her husband run the entire family and household affairs. The role of wives is limited only to run her husband’s instructions. He always gave everything, as if she demanded her husband for more power by without trying to demonstrate its role or its existence at all against her husband, padalah he is a partner for her husband.

7. Stubborn wife.

This kind of wife is a hard-nosed wife in all things, and he continues to hide behind that stubborn nature. Because he got a comfort to him when he insisted to follow his opinion, even if it’s wrong. In addition, through the way that he got the satisfaction of self. For example, if her husband wanted one type of food, he kept preparing other foods, even foods that actually do not like. This kind of woman is she the most hated men.

… Wife of a stubborn woman in all respects is the most hated men …

Many considerations to think about in search of a wife later. Among them are:

1. What is his religion? I’m hoping will have a wife who is Muslim.
2. How her nasab. I hope later she was a woman of good family and much of the seed of the wicked.
3. Her face was beautiful. As men in general I want a woman who has a charming face and beautiful, beautiful face and pretty good heart.

Maybe it is the general criteria to fill. May Allah guide me to the straight path. Amen.