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1. Mutual respect. Love is the main reason we marry someone. But love can not survive without mutual respect. Respect does not mean submission, but rather a commitment to support each other in a state like any couple. Whatever the circumstances that bad mate, there’s no single reason that allows you to insult him. Remember, all the disgrace mate, is also a disgrace you. Its failure is your failure.
2. Keeping intimacy. Married means to run a new chapter in your love life. There will be many changes that occur when compared with periods of courtship. When married, intimacy sometimes forgotten. Too busy to reach life goals or simply chasing the material often makes the couple forgot to show his love.  For that always make time for your partner. Sweet kiss and words of sincere love going back to awaken your intimacy. You and your partner also does not forget the reason you fell in love.
3. Teamwork. Once married, you and your partner is a unity. No more ‘I’ or ‘She’, only ‘we’. For that you should formulate an appropriate way of teamwork. Do not impose mutual views. Merging of two minds from different backgrounds never easy. But if you and your partner to support each other, it is feasible.
4. Keeping commitments. Keeping commitments is important. This will increase your confidence and your partner on your wedding. You and your partner will not be easily shaken by the ordeal that lay.

This excerpt from the content of my friend’s blog “… I believe that marriage, fortune and death have all been outlined, and if this time I did not pass my civil servants will learn to be content, perhaps it was not my fortune. And this time I will set your heart and not too ambitious, such as civil service examination ago so when I failed, it took me a week to heal the wound in my heart … “
The sentence that I want to peel this time it is, everything is there that set, everything is outlined by a god and so forth. Indeed, for the statement that I agree but … (Remember there but her). Some say, when we are in the stomach’s mother, we’ve signed a contract with god. Regarding our fortune and others. And all of that has been outlined. We as human beings would never have to change all that.
There is also a saying, there’s destiny is also called mubram mualaq called, then there are some provisions that we can change and nothing is certain, until we die trying to change it, then our efforts will be futile.
So this is where my opinion would I ask you, when we had the desire associated with death for example. We wish to live long, yet we may in our izroil angel’s book will die at age 40. So this is something that is not contrary to our wishes?
Yes … this is where our desires will clash with the wishes of god. And when you ask me, ‘Does my age could be 60 years whereas in izroil notebook I would die at age 40? “My answer is very able. Why do I get a wise guy like that? Because in my right, I am very confident that our god, Allah SWT is the Essence of the most wills. Whatever can he turn bulak without hassles. Yes … for He is Oft infinite and beyond our mind to be able to reach them. We are written in the book of death will easily He will die at the age of 60 years. And if you all want to die at the age of 60 years, to say all that to your god. I am sure Allah will hear it. Strength, humility, pure and sincere intention that you are referring to the rational will hear. How we can ‘lick’ god, that’s the key. When you are arrogant, then you are still far from the word ‘lick’ because you do not deserve at all to be arrogant. Try to think, hit ‘toothache’ you just moaning in pain and could not sleep well. And the sound of mosquitoes buzzing in your ear you want to drive out because it makes your brain on fire, and on the other side when you’ve recovered you could arrogant? Very ironic is not it?
Therefore, let us try from here, began to order our hearts and thoughts, often contemplating our existence in this world. May we include those who are lucky to get help from Allah SWT. Amen Amen yes robbal alamien.

Why now many people are born geniuses of disadvantaged families? Why now corpulent brat, born from kelarga naughty teacher or civil servant? Maybe this is our review this time.
My short answer is because the families can not afford that he can feed his family with a halal goods but from a family that was not fulfilled. So beware those who menjadapatkan trusteeship of wealth, position and ease a variety of other facilities that allow you to do your daily activities with ease, because behind all that much temptation. If you have excess wealth do not forget:

Fakta Unik: Semua Tentang Binatang

1. Zakat. Due to the charity we will know ourselves, the wealth that we pay slips attached is not ours.
2. Spend on something useful. Because the expenditures that are not useful especially the smelly ‘evil’ can be ascertained, the nutrients into your body are bad seeds.
3. Always grateful, because with gratitude the Creator of Life has promised us to increase the fortune that we earn. And no doubt on that promise.

My article is about the time “How did someone say wise and steadfast and patient?”. Important points that I took this time is inspired from the television in one of the private television in Indonesia.
Here is a struggle when starting from a coconut tree until he is consumed by humans. First he must be dropped from a tall tree. After that he will stick to the fibers plucked coconuts. After sighting coconut shell, then cleaned and cleaned up to look white meat that was wrapped by the coconut shell. Coconut water and then discarded. After that the meat obtained will be grated coconut until creamed. And finally squeezing to be used as cooking ingredients. Long and painful journey by a coconut in order to take the core essence.
Perhaps the above analogy will help readers make sense of all in life. Sometimes we are always complaining of the trials is given by god. But if you read my palm fruit analogy above, if you are still eligible to complain again?
May test and trial granted by the gods, purely to test how thick our faith and not as a punishment in the world. May the gods show the straight path.

Very often you hear or read the sentence above. And usually, intended for a student to repeat classes. “Actually, Budi was clever, but he was lazy to learn so it does not go to class”
Let us think for a moment, analyzing the sentence above. Is there a meaning that is implied? Well, we try to help you replace it with the phrase “Actually you were beautiful.” Means that there are facts that the person is not beautiful. Really like that? If I continue with the sentence “Actually you are beautiful, it’s just that you do not care for your olive skin, your nose and various interesting parts of your body so you look bad.”
Perhaps that sentence would seem a little ’sick’ in our ears when there was someone who spoke to us. Because you’ve tervonis ‘ugly’. And the problem will be widened if the sentence was not addressed to one person only ‘personal’ but for a community. Like the title phrase of my articles this time “Actually Indonesia intelligent people.” Why should I use the word ‘truth’ is not ‘truth’ alone?,

‘Fact’ or ‘truth’?
The word ‘truth’ appears because of the culture. Culture of Indonesia, especially Java tribe, they resemble a word (sentence) to express a situation without offending the reader or listener. So the point is to keep the feelings of the listener. There are some other sentences that essentially the same, such as “video nasty like Ariel”, “Failure is success delayed”, I do not understand what you mean, “and some other sentences that are often spoken dialogue community in general.
The purpose of the spoken positively this is the respect, subtle satire, giving opportunity, and tolerance. Again, that’s a culture that is inherent in our hearts. It’s good, tend to politely, it’s just going to be bad if the transmitter of satire or good intentions could not knock listeners hearts with good intentions. And instead tend to be a trend or a culture that tends to ‘relax’ and did not rise from the state.

Indonesia Facts intelligent nation

1. Ir. Sukarno, Indonesia’s first president sanga
2. BJ Habibie, the Indonesian technicians who use his brain bleeding in Germany.
3. Danone to League football is always the little achievement in the international arena.
4. Dozens of the International Olympic medal in science.
5. David, a university student in Singapore who died because of problems’ penemuan’nya.
6. Icuk Sugiarto, pengayun legendary racket.
7. Sri Mulyani, an economist who hid behind a beautiful curtain of the World Bank.
8. Gajah Mada, the oath Palapanya.
9. General Sudirman, the lame who walk around the island of Java.

If it is a small part from the fact that the Indonesian people smart, why should have the word ‘truth’?
There is an anecdote with the lyrics “My ancestors, a sailor …”, the only question is why our ancestors who were seamen reliable (read: the kingdom of Srivijaya maritime). We continue to be a seer (read: people who see) the history of our ancestors carved?

Arrest and detention at Police Headquarters Ariel seems to make a wave of sympathy coming from his fellow artists and musicians. Big names such as Ahmad Dhani Titiek Puspa and flocked to singer Peter’s.

Ahmad Dhani himself considered his visit to Headquarters as one way of showing support for the rule of law. To be sure, he wanted a clear difference between what is sin and what is criminal.

“Yes it (having sex with another man’s wife), not with regard to criminal liability. We must distinguish the sin, crime, and civil liability. Sin and crime are not the same. If it is considered a sin, not necessarily considered criminal. Well, but if the husband reported Dance Cut Ariel, it can be, “Dhani said when met at Police Headquarters, Thursday (06/24).

Dhani was not necessarily to blame Ariel and similar video nasty outstanding artist as a trigger of the existence of other sexual abuse. He considers rape has frequently occurred even though the video is not outstanding.

“The wrong tuh us all. I asked if Ariel was arrested, what is not going there again? It could be anyone upload it again. That is, what we do not have the tools to anticipate this so that people do not upload random. You have to make what used to statistically before there was video, there are many rapes? My subscription Pos City before it has a lot of rape cases, “he added.

Furthermore, Dhani also not agree if an omission is considered as a criminal case. And he felt that if Ariel is just the black goat.

“Failure was not criminal. We are all wrong. Even now the police can not catch the first to upload. I’m not sure would be caught. Most of the first upload in a cybercafe, but who uploads do not know. The problem is, we do not know who was first uploaded, but Ariel, who became a scapegoat, “said Dhani.

However, when mentioned about the news that says if the disseminator video was arrested, Dhani was impressed not so sure. “Doang news, news-he was doing,” he concluded shortly. (KPL / ato / NPY)

In providing services as a mother’s boarding house to someone else we should be able to provide the best service to our clients feel at ease and comfort to live in boarding houses. This is based on bitter experience what I experienced. Last night when I was about to return home to a boarding house turned out to be dead lights and gates are locked. There are several services boarding house owner who is still lacking, such as:

1. They only provide tables and beds with cotton mattress. It is not convenient, considering I pay per month is quite expensive.
2. I pay for per month valued at Rp. 100 000, -. And always pay on time on December 1. I rarely pay late.
3. For lighting in my room is provided only 5 watts incandescent lamp, if this is feasible if a teacher who stay are given only light was that small?

And finally I pondered all this, and that in my mind is patience and hopefully they were given guidance by God. Amen.

As a faithful user of im3 card I sometimes get annoyed really. Every hour break (hours 18:00 to 21:00) is always difficult to send a short message and contact number im3 another. Very annoying.
Actually I quite understand why this happened. The use of mobile phones the most is when the hours of rest. And this will cause some messages collided in the air. Like the way that its size will still be passed by many cars trying to pass this road. Resulting in congestion. And in my experience, when I send a message to the eight hours it will go through to the recipient at 23:00 o’clock. is not this annoying?
Im3 my expectations as a loyal user since I use the phone as a means to connect with friends of my friends are:

1. IM3 further improve service to customers. This will further enhance the love of IM3 to INDOSAT as one dealer GSM operators in Indonesia. If you can smoothly telkomsel IM3 why not?
2. More provides a bonus to the customer. Like SMS longer and costs more cheaper telfon more affordable. Thus will increase the number of subscribers.

I find the wisdom of a serial story Wiro Sableng 212 Bastian Tito works. After I read the serial Wiro Sableng 212 Edition “Four Warrior sideboards” there is a deep wisdom in this story.
That is the meaning of the number 212 written on the chest Wiro Sableng. That is the law partner of the universe. That everything in this universe are paired. For example: there is good there is bad, there’s pretty bad there, there are rich no poor, there are no ill health, there are rich and so poor.
This is called the law of pairs. And it all stems at a time. The couple is two, and all pairs tipped one, namely God. For example we have two nostrils, but our nose one. Our lips there are two, but our mouths one. Our eyes have two, but our heads together.
The bottom line is anything that we feel, be it happy or sad. We have to restore everything to God.
At first glance, the story is wiro Sableng kungfu ridiculous that there are no contents. But if we want to dig deeper, then we will find the goodness in it.

That was before I went to the mosque to perform Friday prayers. I saw the news on television. Where there is a group of cops who abuse a woman. She was demanding her rights to the land of letters. This incident occurred in Bojonegoro. Where there is a woman who was persecuted in the fields. This woman was kicked, and driven to the field so that his body covered with mud. I’m sorry for once with this woman.
In my heart I’m thinking, why they should be kicked and pushed the black-clad woman who fell into the mud? There were 5-6 policemen who were there. It was not fair.
I said “Now that human behavior than the animal’s behavior.” First there is a saying that “A ferocious tiger, would not eat her own child.” But now men to commit violence against other humans. Even sometimes they kill their biological children. Abortion is an act which is very sad. Parents kill her own child for its own sake.
Is this a sign that times are going to end? Only God knows all this!